Let Go to Grow: What You Might Need to Release This Season

toabetterself
May 21
2 min read

Hello Beautiful,

Can we pause for a moment and exhale together? Inhale peace… exhale the pressure.

There’s something magical that happens when we stop trying to hold everything together and start asking ourselves, “What can I release?” Because just like the trees let go of their leaves, we are allowed—invited, even—to let go of what no longer serves our growth.

Letting go isn’t weakness. It’s wisdom. It’s trust. It’s creating space for who you’re becoming.

So if you’ve been feeling heavy, scattered, or stuck in a loop—this is your gentle reminder: it’s okay to release.

Here are a few things you might need to let go of this season so you can grow into your next, brighter version of self.

1. Let Go of the Version of You That You have Outgrown

That version of you who played small, said yes out of fear, and quieted her voice to keep the peace? She got you here. She protected you. But she doesn’t need to lead anymore.

Let her go with love. Make space for the version of you that speaks up, stands tall, and knows her worth.

2. Let Go of the Urge to Control Everything

You don’t have to know how it will all unfold. Trying to control every outcome only creates anxiety—and steals the beauty of the present moment.

Trade control for curiosity. Trust that what’s meant for you is already finding its way to you.

3. Let Go of the Guilt for Resting

Rest isn’t lazy. It’s necessary. It’s healing. It’s productive in the most sacred way.

This season, let go of the shame or pressure tied to slowing down. Your body knows what it needs—and your soul is worthy of care.

4. Let Go of Relationships That Drain You

If someone or something constantly leaves you feeling small, anxious, or depleted—it might be time to release it. You are allowed to outgrow connections that don’t honor your light.

Choose peace over pleasing. Choose aligned energy over obligation.

5. Let Go of the Belief That You are “Behind”

You are not late to your life. There is no timeline you have to follow. You are allowed to bloom slowly, to take detours, to evolve in your own divine timing.

Let go of the pressure to catch up. You’re not behind—you’re right on time.