Self-Care by Your Cycle: How to Nurture Yourself in Each Phase
- toabetterself
- May 28
- 3 min read
Hey Beautiful,
Let’s talk about something every woman experiences, but few of us were taught how to honor: our cycle.
Your menstrual cycle isn’t just about your period. It’s a powerful, natural rhythm your body moves through each month—shifting your energy, emotions, focus, and even what kind of care you need.
When you start paying attention and aligning your self-care with your cycle, you stop fighting your body—and start flowing with it.
This is your permission slip to slow down, tune in, and start honoring each phase of your cycle like the queen you are.
Let’s walk through it together:
Menstrual Phase (Days 1–5) — Rest & Reflect
This is your period. Your hormones are at their lowest, and your body is focused on release. You might feel tired, emotional, or like hiding under the covers—and that’s totally okay.
What You Need:
Rest. Stillness. Warmth. Nourishment.
Extra sleep, comfy clothes, quiet time.
Self-Care Ideas:
Say “no” more and give yourself permission to cancel plans.
Drink warm herbal teas (ginger, cinnamon, raspberry leaf).
Journaling or quiet reflection.
Light yoga or stretching—only if it feels good.
Affirmation: “I honor my need for rest. It’s safe to slow down.”
Follicular Phase (Days 6–14) — Renew & Create
Estrogen is rising, energy is returning, and you’re stepping into your creative, optimistic self. This is your “spring” phase—time to plant new ideas and explore.
What You Need:
Stimulation. Movement. Creativity. Planning.
Try new things and dream big.
Self-Care Ideas:
Start new routines or projects.
Try a new recipe or workout.
Go on a solo date or explore a new space.
Schedule work that needs focus and energy.
Affirmation: “I am open, creative, and full of potential.”
Ovulatory Phase (Days 15–17) — Shine & Connect
This is your energetic peak. Estrogen and testosterone are at their highest, and you will likely feel confident, magnetic, and social. Use this time to show up boldly!
What You Need:
Connection. Expression. Boldness. Energy.
Let yourself be seen and celebrated.
Self-Care Ideas:
Plan social time or important meetings.
Wear your favorite outfit or bold lipstick.
Host a gathering or collaborate with others.
Move your body in a way that makes you feel powerful.
Affirmation: “I am magnetic, powerful, and fully myself.”
Luteal Phase (Days 18–28) — Slow & Soften
This is your inner autumn. Progesterone rises, and your body prepares for rest. You may feel more introverted or emotional—and that’s your signal to turn inward.
What You Need:
Comfort. Reassurance. Boundaries. Reflection.
Honor the urge to pull back and soften.
Self-Care Ideas:
Declutter or organize your space.
Say no to extra obligations.
Journal, nest, and cozy up.
Eat grounding foods like sweet potato, oats, dark chocolate.
Affirmation: “I honor my cycles. I listen to my body with love.”
Final Thoughts: You Are Not Meant to Be the Same Every Day
Your cycle isn’t something to dread—it’s something to celebrate. Each phase brings a gift: renewal, power, connection, wisdom.
When you care for yourself cyclically, you stop shaming your shifts and start honoring your sacred rhythm.
So give yourself what you need, when you need it. Rest when you’re tired. Shine when you feel bright. Cry when your body asks to release. Laugh loudly when the energy’s high. That’s self-love in motion.
I also wanted to quickly share with you my beautiful and useful Harmony Cycle Book.
Full of information and empty chart for you to track your cycle, empower you and more... (Click on the image to find out more)
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Your friend,
Alex
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