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10 Self-Love Practices to Start Today for a Happier You


Hey, Beautiful!


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Life can get crazy, right? Between work, family, and everything else, it’s so easy to forget about the most important person in your life—you! But here’s the thing: you deserve all the love and care you so freely give to others. So, let’s dive into some super doable self-love practices you can start today to make sure you’re feeling your best. Trust me, your future self will thank you!


1. Start Your Day with Positive Affirmations


Let’s kick things off with a little morning magic. When you wake up, try saying something positive to yourself, like “I’ve got this” or “Today, I’m choosing joy.” It might feel a bit awkward at first, but these affirmations can totally set the tone for your day. You’ll be surprised at how much better you feel just by speaking kindly to yourself.


2. Practice Mindful Breathing


I know, life gets busy, but taking just five minutes to breathe deeply can work wonders. Close your eyes, inhale slowly, and let go of any stress with each exhale. It’s like a mini-vacation for your mind—no passport required! I personally go out on my baloney and I feels great :)


3. Nourish Your Body with Healthy Foods


We’ve all been there—reaching for that sugary snack when we’re stressed or tired. But here’s a little secret: feeding your body with healthy, yummy foods can give you way more energy and keep your mood in check. Think of it as a way of loving yourself from the inside out. And don't wait the last minute to go buy those healthy snacks, prepare them early or the sweets will be in your hand in no time :)


4. Set Boundaries and Learn to Say No


Okay, this one can be tough, but it’s so important. You don’t have to say yes to everything and everyone. It’s totally okay to protect your time and energy. In fact, saying “no” when you need to is one of the most empowering things you can do for yourself. I find it difficult to say no especially to my kids but I am trying to switch my thinking. By saying no to them when they want a snack or something similar, they will learn to do it themselves or help each other and I will be able to do what I need to so it is a win-win :)


5. Engage in Regular Physical Activity


No need to hit the gym for hours (unless that’s your thing). Just find something fun that gets you moving—dancing in your living room, a walk in the park, or a yoga session. Moving your body releases those feel-good endorphins, and who doesn’t want a little extra happiness boost?


6. Take Time for Rest and Relaxation


Girl, you deserve some downtime. Whether it’s binge-watching your favorite show, taking a hot bath, or just chilling with a good book, make sure you carve out some time to unwind. Rest isn’t just nice—it’s necessary.


7. Surround Yourself with Positive Influences


Ever notice how your mood can shift depending on who you’re around? Keep your circle full of people who lift you up, make you laugh, and support your dreams. And don't forget what you watch as well (social media...) Good vibes are contagious, so let’s spread and attract them!


8. Practice Gratitude Daily


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Gratitude is like a little sprinkle of magic in your day. Take a moment each day to think about what you’re grateful for—it could be anything from a cozy blanket to a heartwarming chat with a friend. Writing it down can help, too. (and I created an Evening Gratitude journal just for you :)

Before you know it, you’ll start seeing the good in every day.



9. Treat Yourself with Compassion


We’re all our own worst critics, but it’s time to give yourself a break. Next time you mess up, try talking to yourself like you’d talk to your best friend—with kindness and understanding. Self-compassion is a total game-changer.


10. Invest in Your Personal Growth


Finally, never stop growing, Beautiful! Whether it’s learning a new hobby, setting some exciting goals, or just taking time to reflect on your journey, investing in yourself is the ultimate act of self-love. You’re worth every bit of effort you put into becoming the best version of you.


Conclusion


So there you have it—10 simple ways to start loving yourself a little more today. Remember, self-love isn’t selfish; it’s essential. By making yourself a priority, you’re setting the stage for a happier, more fulfilled life. Now go on, girl, and show yourself the love you deserve!


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Let’s keep this positive energy going together!









Your friend,

Alex

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